Most people have a clear idea of what grief is meant to look like. It’s expected to arrive after an obvious loss. A death. An ending. Something visible. And sometimes, that is exactly how grief unfolds. But there is another kind of grief — quieter, less obvious — that runs unseen through a large proportion of the difficulties that bring people into therapy. It doesn’t announce itself as grief. It shows up indirectly. When something feels unfinished People often arrive in ther